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My father passed away yesterday morning, around 6am. He battled the ugly devil that is cancer for a little over a year. He held on for quite a long time considering the only treatment he was eligible for was one 6-week round of radiation. Aside from that, there was no treatment. Just a year ago he was up and walking around and laughing with us all, and over the past couple of months he was mostly bed ridden, and now he's left this life.
I just wanted to say something here, even though I'm not as active as I'd like to be here. I'm not much of a familiar face, but I've been around CP for a long time. I hope you all have a wonderful day, and cherish your life and the lives of those you care about, every day.
djj55: Nice but may have a permission problem
Pete O'Hanlon: He has my permission to run it.
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May he rest in peace!
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Sorry to hear of your loss Matt.
Matt U. wrote: a year ago he was up and walking around and laughing with us all This is how you can remember him and be glad that you were a part of the shared laughter.
It was broke, so I fixed it.
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Absolutely. I'm sure many of us know what it feels like. It's hard. But I have nothing except amazing memories, and those will help get through. Thank you.
djj55: Nice but may have a permission problem
Pete O'Hanlon: He has my permission to run it.
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Sorry for that Matt.
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Thank you, Joan.
djj55: Nice but may have a permission problem
Pete O'Hanlon: He has my permission to run it.
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My condolences on your loss. And to paraphrase what you said, every day is a good day to stop for a few minutes and think of who we are thankful for in our lives and why.
Marc
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I'm a firm believer in that. I'm happy that I had already thought that way before all this happened. Otherwise, I would probably hold it against myself for not taking the time to realize how thankful I was for him in my life. Thank you very much, Marc.
djj55: Nice but may have a permission problem
Pete O'Hanlon: He has my permission to run it.
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Marc Clifton wrote: every day is a good day to stop for a few minutes and think of who we are thankful for in our lives and why.
I'm thankful for you too Marc.
Jeremy Falcon
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Jeremy Falcon wrote: I'm thankful for you too Marc.
And I you.
Ah, let the love-fest begin!
I'm in a rather exuberant mood at the moment, because as of 10 minutes ago, I finally solved something I've been googling and oodling and noodling for the last few days: how to auto-login in to Debian on a Beaglebone Black and initialize the LCD and ttyO2 capes automatically and run whatever app I want run.
And I just now figured it out!!!
Linux is cool, but it also is sooooo frustrating. In some obscure corner of stackoverflow I finally came across a post saying that "inittab" (the old way of controlling logins) is obsolete, and everything nowadays is handled by "systemd". Of course, there are a gazzillion posts on how to do what I wanted to do with inittab, none of which of course work.
I suppose if I were more up to snuff on Linuxee things, I would have known that "systemd" was now the in-vogue thing.
Anyways, at the end of the day, Linux is again the favored suitor and there is much rejoicing in the kingdom.
Marc
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Marc Clifton wrote: Anyways, at the end of the day, Linux is again the favored suitor and there is much rejoicing in the kingdom.
The strength and weakness of Linux/Unix is that you can configure / customize everything. It's a blessing and a curse. It makes the learning much more of a pain. But, when you get your head wrapped around it, it's hard to go back to a Windows server.
In level of complexity, from easiest to hardest to use, it's like this: Mac -> Windows -> *nix. And it doesn't help that *nix has many influences from different vendors over the years with everyone having a hand in the pot. But, if you can survive it, you can do some really awesome stuff that would require a lot of special programming in another OS.
Jeremy Falcon
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Sorry for your loss.
Once you lose your pride the rest is easy.
I would agree with you but then we both would be wrong.
The report of my death was an exaggeration - Mark Twain
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Condolences Matt.
"Go forth into the source" - Neal Morse
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RIP
What do you get when you cross a joke with a rhetorical question?
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The metaphorical solid rear-end expulsions have impacted the metaphorical motorized bladed rotating air movement mechanism.
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Sorry for your loss.
Illness sucks: My grand-father died from Alzheimer two weeks ago. A month from now, he still would recognize us. Two weeks later, we were total strangers to him, or at least, he did not react anymore.
~RaGE();
I think words like 'destiny' are a way of trying to find order where none exists. - Christian Graus
Entropy isn't what it used to.
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Alzheimers sucks. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. My grand-father died of the same.
Ah well, remember the good and raise a in their memory, enjoy some strong cheese, some good sausage all the while telling some even better stories, the facts of the actual events be damned!
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I'm sorry for your loss as well. My dad's mother passed from Alzheimer's a couple years ago. However, she always remembered her older family members. She only ever had trouble remembering the young (<5 years old) great-grandchildren. That's a tough time as well, and I wish you and your family the best, too.
djj55: Nice but may have a permission problem
Pete O'Hanlon: He has my permission to run it.
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Thank you.
~RaGE();
I think words like 'destiny' are a way of trying to find order where none exists. - Christian Graus
Entropy isn't what it used to.
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I'm sorry to hear of your loss. In just over a week I will be taking a trip to honor my wife's father's last wishes. He passed away from complications due to cancer as well. It will be a year this upcoming October. I know exactly how you feel, just a month before it happened, he was up and active and joking. We were talking about how in less than a year he was going to walk his daughter down the aisle for our wedding.
It is hard and doesn't get much easier. That said, remember the good, the happy, and the fun. As hard as it was, I know from the bottom of my heart that at least in our case he never would have wanted to see us sad. So that evening we opened a few finely crafted beers, had a New York style pizza, and laughed and joked... and even cried a little. Don't mourn his passing, honor the life he led.
Feel free to drop me a line if you need.
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Your thoughts are so very true, and I agree 100%. That helps me out greatly, and it's much appreciated. I definitely plan to relive our best memories together over the past 27 years. My family will be gather at my house this Sunday for a sort of informal memorial. Food, fun, plenty of children, laughter, jokes, and sharing our greatest memories of my father. I mean, great memories are the only memories anyone has. He lived only to selflessly help others and make others happy. Thank you so very much, RJOberg.
djj55: Nice but may have a permission problem
Pete O'Hanlon: He has my permission to run it.
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RJOberg wrote: Don't mourn his passing, honor the life he led.
Exactly!!
Jeremy Falcon
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I am sorry for your loss, Matt.
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My Heartfelt condolences mate!! May his soul rest in peace!!
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Thank you!
djj55: Nice but may have a permission problem
Pete O'Hanlon: He has my permission to run it.
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Sorry to hear that man, and you're right. Life is a gift. We take it for granted all too much.
Jeremy Falcon
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