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duct tape  good one though 
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Just a general thing to think about:
You're goal is to raise them to be fully autonomous societal units. You don't want to spoil or shield them too much, but this time you have with them will be gone so soon. You can work your bum off and make a bunch of extra money to help send them out into the world, or you can give them your time while they are still desperate to have it.
It's a tough balance but think about the memories you want them to have.
cheers
Chris Maunder
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yeah you got a great point, I agree about the time and bond
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Oh - I thought you meant an unmarried child with children of their own.
Well, since that's not the case, I'll give the only parental advice I ever give (usually to new parents): read to them as soon as they'll look/listen. Every night if possible.
For mine, they were all dying to learn to read - and once they do that, the rest of school goes pretty well. I also avoided letting their minds be poisoned into not liking math or science. In fact, one of their favorite shows, "3-2-1 Contact" was a math-version of Sesame Street, although less juvenile. Watch with them (MathNet was awesome!). And nature shows. Inoculation with a love for learning is a life-long path to success.
Based upon their age and your situation, adapt the above. Do things with them where they can tell you are really enjoying yourself, too.
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Reading is a good advise to make a bond and memory, your suggested tv shows are also good hints
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.....even when things seem impossible, there is nothing we can’t pull through with a little focus, ingenuity, and luck.
Caveat Emptor.
"Progress doesn't come from early risers – progress is made by lazy men looking for easier ways to do things." Lazarus Long
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yeah true motivation and determination can get us through anything
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First of all, I am not alone with the kids, so it is not exactly the same, but anyways...
Many things I would have said were already said, so I'll try to not repeat them.
The most difficult part for me is to not take it personally when they explore limits. I know they are not being evil, but I know for sure too that they are doing things on purpose. It is their job, to see how far they can tense a string before it breaks.
So... be patient, be reeeeeeaaaallllyyyyy patient.
If you are not, learn how to be it. I am still on it, but I notice that the improvements pay off.
Another thing I think it is very important is to be loyal to your principles and be consequent in your decissions. If today is a "no", that should stay a "no" until thee situation changes, and when it happens, then explain why the change of situation has brought a change of opinion.
Give reasons for what you do or decide, they learn to argue pretty fast and the sooner you involve them in the reasoning process, the better.
Let them explore and give them certain autonomy (being alone, you won't have any other choice), but within the limits you set.
By the way... Yes they are kids, but NO, they are not dumb.
Avoid baby speech and things like that. Talk with them adapted to a kid, but talk properly, call the things by its correct name (there will be still enough "wuf wuf" or "miaow" in the process).
M.D.V. 
If something has a solution... Why do we have to worry about?. If it has no solution... For what reason do we have to worry about?
Help me to understand what I'm saying, and I'll explain it better to you
Rating helpful answers is nice, but saying thanks can be even nicer.
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really great from experience, I can tell, yeah patience is the key I guess
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Build a time machine. Talk yourself out of the whole thing.
I started with step 2 when I was still a kid myself, so didn't have to come up with step 1.
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Does a mid-life-crisis cat drive a Furrari?
"I have no idea what I did, but I'm taking full credit for it." - ThisOldTony
"Common sense is so rare these days, it should be classified as a super power" - Random T-shirt
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Only if it comes with Purrelli's
Keep Calm and Carry On
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or a Porsche litter Boxster.
"the debugger doesn't tell me anything because this code compiles just fine" - random QA comment
"Facebook is where you tell lies to your friends. Twitter is where you tell the truth to strangers." - chriselst
"I don't drink any more... then again, I don't drink any less." - Mike Mullikins uncle
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For which life?
(Cats have nine)
Freedom is the freedom to say that two plus two make four. If that is granted, all else follows.
-- 6079 Smith W.
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Number 5, obviously.
"I have no idea what I did, but I'm taking full credit for it." - ThisOldTony
"Common sense is so rare these days, it should be classified as a super power" - Random T-shirt
AntiTwitter: @DalekDave is now a follower!
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Still lands with all four on the floor.
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I have no idea what to add to this thread (maybe because I don't give much of a damn about cars so long as they work when I need to go). Possibly they end up with a 8 litter engine or something like that.
Rather poor - maybe I should just scratch this post and call it even.
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Google Meet For Android & iOS Gets Similar Redesign To Gmail App. How do you think is its only a waste of money, or is it a tactical move?
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I think: "Who cares?"
It's probably a "corporate identity" thing. I don't use it, so it doesn't bother me in the slightest.
"I have no idea what I did, but I'm taking full credit for it." - ThisOldTony
"Common sense is so rare these days, it should be classified as a super power" - Random T-shirt
AntiTwitter: @DalekDave is now a follower!
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William.Front-end wrote: Gmail App
The one I totally ignore, and just pull my email instead into my regular email reader so everything is still presented in a consistent way no matter where it originates from--as all email should?
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To be honest, not the first lockdown and not this we should face have not much effect on me...
If I can commute I do, otherwise working from home...
But! There are a few - or even more than a few - who lost their job (including my big brother, who was on unpaid leave for a few months)... As I understand this time there will be no restrictions on the workforce, except if the nature of the work implies crowd (like sport, theater, hotels, restaurants and such)...
At my office we keep distance in an average day, so not much changed there... Probably part of the colleges will work form home, to keep an eye on the kids, but as my wife works from home most of the time anyways, no problem there either...
The only problem that we are under extreme pressure to enable full online learning - including exams... A lot of work...
(because of the holiday season I have only 7 days of work left until the end of the 3 weeks lockdown planned)
"The only place where Success comes before Work is in the dictionary." Vidal Sassoon, 1928 - 2012
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Well...
- As a result of the behavior of many of the ministers and other bigwigs during the last lockdown and since, the Government has very low credibility.
- Israel is an extremely diverse country. We have a serious problem of disobedience to the Coronavirus regulations among certain groups.
- We have a Prime Minister who is under trial for bribery, fraud and breach of trust, refuses to resign, at least one minister under suspicion of the same, and weekly protests calling on the Government to resign.
- We have very high unemployment, businesses have closed, etc. The tourism, entertainment, and retail businesses have been worst hit, but everyone has been affected to some extent.
In short, the actual Coronavirus is the least of our problems. 
Freedom is the freedom to say that two plus two make four. If that is granted, all else follows.
-- 6079 Smith W.
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Daniel Pfeffer wrote: the Government has very low credibility
You phrased that very gently... Maybe you meant that 'low' === 'converges to zero'...
Daniel Pfeffer wrote: We have a serious problem of disobedience to the Coronavirus ANY regulations among certain ALL groups.
FTFY
"The only place where Success comes before Work is in the dictionary." Vidal Sassoon, 1928 - 2012
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You make that sound like a much larger country!
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