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W Balboos, GHB28-Jul-20 7:29
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crazedDotNetDev27-Jul-20 5:34
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rnbergren27-Jul-20 5:50
rnbergren27-Jul-20 5:50 
Sander you are correct. Everyone is different. and to each their own. I actually do have 3 children. and even though I thought I did ok raising them. I would not wish the pain of raising them on anyone. IF you don't want kids. YOU ARE NOT BEING Selfish. They are a huge commitment.

I just don't even say anything along those lines of "just wait until you have kids". I might ask if one has kids just to try to relate life experiences with said person. But if they don't have kids I move onto the next life experiences match to have a conversation. I am not in the game of fixing someone elses life. Mine is screwed up enough.

The ones that cause me heart ache are those that cannot and want them. Or those that didn't want them but were forced into the situation. That is not good for any of the parties.
To err is human to really mess up you need a computer

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