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Ravi Bhavnani26-Jan-20 18:04

Ravi Bhavnani

26-Jan-20 18:04

honey the codewitch wrote:
acheivement

Now that's definitely not normal.

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Kornfeld Eliyahu Peter26-Jan-20 18:37

Kornfeld Eliyahu Peter

26-Jan-20 18:37

The only problem about 'normal' that it changes its meaning over time and over place... When my mother refers to normal, she does not mean the same as me or you... So what is normal?
I'm living in a community with normal and different-from-normal people - the only real difference is that the later group has a doctor-signed certificate about it...

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honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 19:34

26-Jan-20 19:34

I think that while it's true that what can specifically mean normal is culturally and temporally bound, the general meaning of normal, to wit, characterized by the behavior of most people most of the time isn't so much.

It all depends on how you use it.

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Jörgen Andersson26-Jan-20 21:06

Jörgen Andersson

26-Jan-20 21:06

You have to differentiate between: Normal for the Family, the Community, the Society or the Species.

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honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 22:56

Total BS about saying Normal

26-Jan-20 22:56

absolutely, normal is one of the most context sensitive words i can think of.

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super26-Jan-20 22:12

26-Jan-20 22:12

The activity to bring food to table 3 times a day and provide a roof for a family may be very normal or boring to many people in the IT world with good job and nice education. But that is not the case for the majority of the people in the real world.

Heck even having a normal school/College life is a challenge. Many At risk kids will love to have normal life.
Student who is struggling or a professional who is below average, for them being able to be normal with others means a lot and needs determination.

So stop painting a broad brush and degrade others

cheers,

Super

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honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 22:47

26-Jan-20 22:47

all i argued in that OC was that normal was about not leaving one's comfort zone. That's as close to "degrading" anyone as that went, and I wouldn't say that qualifies. Furthermore, is it inaccurate?

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super26-Jan-20 22:53

26-Jan-20 22:53

honey the codewitch wrote:
normal was about not leaving one's comfort zone

No you did not. Because you assume that normal is not leaving one comfort zone which is way off the mark. Majority of people want to be in normal aka comfort zone and try hard for that.
And you also said normal is boring!!!
Tell that to majority of people who are struggling to be normal.

Normal != comfort zone.

cheers,

Super

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honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 22:58

26-Jan-20 22:58

I agreed with someone else when they said that normal was boring, yes. Different comment, and I didn't open with that.

I find average, typical, mundane to be boring.

OH NOES an opinion!

I am a monster after all. =)

that's honey the monster to you lot.

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super26-Jan-20 23:02

26-Jan-20 23:02

honey the codewitch wrote:
I find average, typical, mundane to be boring.

For you it is but you asked for opinion if there is alternate meaning and I am saying there is for many.
Normal is an achievement for many.

honey the codewitch wrote:
I am a monster after all. =)

It makes me no difference if you are monster or witch, because I am a superhero Smile | :)

cheers,

Super

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honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 23:10

26-Jan-20 23:10

fair enough

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super26-Jan-20 23:12

26-Jan-20 23:12

Peace has been restored Smile | :)

cheers,

Super

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Richard MacCutchan26-Jan-20 22:26

Richard MacCutchan

26-Jan-20 22:26

Define "normal".

honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 22:43

26-Jan-20 22:43

adjective
1.
conforming to a standard; usual, typical, or expected.
"it's quite normal for puppies to bolt their food"
2.
TECHNICAL
(of a line, ray, or other linear feature) intersecting a given line or surface at right angles.

noun
1.
the usual, average, or typical state or condition.
"her temperature was above normal"
2.
TECHNICAL
a line at right angles to a given line or surface.

Source, Oxford dictionary, via google $Shucks | :-\$

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Richard MacCutchan26-Jan-20 23:03

Richard MacCutchan

26-Jan-20 23:03

Context is everything.

I used to volunteer for a charity that provides emotional support to people by phone, email, text ...
It is amazing how many people would say "I don't think I am normal", when the real problem was how other people would not just accept them for what they were.

honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 23:08

26-Jan-20 23:08

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F-ES Sitecore26-Jan-20 22:43

F-ES Sitecore

26-Jan-20 22:43

honey the codewitch wrote:
"Being normal takes courage."

You rather ironically answered your own question when two posts later you were bashing "normal" people as being "boring".

honey the codewitch wrote:
normal is essentially a synonym for boring.

The reason being "normal" is hard is because it is socially acceptable to cowardly criticise, berate and abuse people who don't identify as a marginalised class, safe in the knowledge that if any criticism comes back they can hurl more abuse and slurs, claiming that person is a bigot, nazi etc.

honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 22:45

26-Jan-20 22:45

Marginalized classes?

Looks like somebody is reaching for his victim card.

You poor normal, so put upon. $Shucks | :-\$

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super26-Jan-20 22:46

26-Jan-20 22:46

honey the codewitch wrote:
Looks like somebody is reaching for his victim card

Wow? Seriously?

cheers,

Super

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honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 22:48

26-Jan-20 22:48

The reason being "normal" is hard is because it is socially acceptable to cowardly criticise, berate and abuse people who don't identify as a marginalised class, safe in the knowledge that if any criticism comes back they can hurl more abuse and slurs, claiming that person is a bigot, nazi etc.

Seriously.

Preemptive "imma get slurs just for beeing meeeeee"

hasn't even been insulted yet.

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F-ES Sitecore26-Jan-20 23:02

F-ES Sitecore

26-Jan-20 23:02

Thanks for proving my point, at least now you have your answer.

honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 23:09

26-Jan-20 23:09

F-ES Sitecore wrote:
Thanks for proving my point

It must be murder finding hats that fit it properly. $Shucks | :-\$

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super26-Jan-20 22:48

26-Jan-20 22:48

Her Post about "Normal" was one of the most elitist post I have seen in Lounge for a long time.

cheers,

Super

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honey the codewitch26-Jan-20 22:51

26-Jan-20 22:51

i'm a monster. $Shucks | :-\$

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