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Sounds like you are in the wrong here. Unless you are purposely trying to avoid the wife and kids, I would check yourself before you wreck yourself.
Advice from someone who has been married for more than 20 years. Mostly happy except for the times I did not check myself.
You get the point...
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Which of Orwell's books is that from? It reminds me so much of this:
Quote: He gazed up at the enormous face. Forty years it had taken him to learn what kind of smile was hidden beneath the dark moustache. O cruel, needless misunderstanding! O stubborn, self-willed exile from the loving breast! Two gin-scented tears trickled down the sides of his nose. But it was all right, everything was all right, the struggle was finished. He had won the victory over himself. He loved Big Brother
I have lived with several Zen masters - all of them were cats.
His last invention was an evil Lasagna. It didn't kill anyone, and it actually tasted pretty good.
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Okay, to keep it balanced let me share what I've observed with myself.
The one that's happening frequently is this:
When my energies are high, I tend to be open with my feedback.
For example, If I didn't like the way she handles kids behaviour.
I say "Okay, but that's not how it should be handled".
She goes mad when I don't join her when she's preaching the kid. She takes this very serious.  It gets into her journal.
I blame it on my energy levels. When it's high, I gather more courage and speak out on the spot, when I'm very sure it wouldn't work with my wife.
modified 16-Sep-19 10:29am.
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Well this is way out of my realm of comfort. I can read/listen to your issues but I am the last person on earth that should be giving marriage advice (not sure you are actually asking for advice versus just venting.)
Good luck?  
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I think that was TMI,  I ended up dumping all that what was running in my mind. lol. just cut them off.
No worries it's not very serious indeed. 
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Yeah she is taking it like a man
modified 20-Oct-19 21:02pm.
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No. I managed to hook up with the most reasonable woman on this planet, at the age of 17 when I took nothing into consideration.
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Geez, man. You said she's had a couple of months of hard work as well, and may be she's not able to take it as well as you do. Just relax, and let her vent some steam. I'm sure she'll understand when you go off your rails as well.
You should be able to yell at each other from time to time, yes? And don't make it a question of who is right, because she's always right.
Nand32 wrote: Not everyone gets a witch, that is honey, as a wife, right?
Hmm? Not everyone is a gay either, so there's that.
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Yep. And this isn't serious. Just a hiccup!
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'Unfair' implies an 'fair' alternative, which of course doesn't exist. I see it as the only deal.
"the debugger doesn't tell me anything because this code compiles just fine" - random QA comment
"Facebook is where you tell lies to your friends. Twitter is where you tell the truth to strangers." - chriselst
"I don't drink any more... then again, I don't drink any less." - Mike Mullikins uncle
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Nand32 wrote: Did I ever take her out for the last two months & that I showed the least care towards her and children
I once told a girl--straightfaced--I thought she was needy.
Yes, I'm single. And yes, I appreciate every minute of it. I have my own s*** to deal with, and don't need the aggravation of somebody else's. If that makes me a flawed person, well, I wasn't going for perfection...
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dandy72 wrote: I have my own s*** to deal with, and don't need the aggravation of somebody else's
I think it was Woody Allen who said:
Quote: Two get married to solve problems that one doesn't have when living alone.
M.D.V. 
If something has a solution... Why do we have to worry about?. If it has no solution... For what reason do we have to worry about?
Help me to understand what I'm saying, and I'll explain it better to you
Rating helpful answers is nice, but saying thanks can be even nicer.
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Nelek wrote: Two get married to solve problems that one doesn't have when living alone.
Genius.
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Englishman with his ruler in fragrant ball (8)
Nice and easy for Monday. Pick your own theme. 100% boy wizard free.
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. - Mark Twain
modified 16-Sep-19 4:37am.
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Englishman POM
with AND
his ruler ER
in fragrant ball
POMANDER
Sent from my Amstrad PC 1640
Never throw anything away, Griff
Bad command or file name. Bad, bad command! Sit! Stay! Staaaay...
AntiTwitter: @DalekDave is now a follower!
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This theme could accomodate a certain MM
"We can't stop here - this is bat country" - Hunter S Thompson - RIP
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The initial version actually mentioned "smelly balls" but I turned it down a bit!
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. - Mark Twain
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We have a winner!
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. - Mark Twain
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I'll have to avoid seven letter solutions tomorrow - can you imagine MM's clue on Wednesday? 
Sent from my Amstrad PC 1640
Never throw anything away, Griff
Bad command or file name. Bad, bad command! Sit! Stay! Staaaay...
AntiTwitter: @DalekDave is now a follower!
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I'd rather not imagine it!
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One of the few one bands that had a pop sensibility (other than the Beatles), that I actually liked. 
"the debugger doesn't tell me anything because this code compiles just fine" - random QA comment
"Facebook is where you tell lies to your friends. Twitter is where you tell the truth to strangers." - chriselst
"I don't drink any more... then again, I don't drink any less." - Mike Mullikins uncle
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Crap. I still haven't figured out how to tell my wife about Eddie Money, and now Ric Ocasek?
(she doesn't follow news)
Software Zen: delete this;
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