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Yep you are absolutely right and for this case I see no reason for such a bad comment of the reported member.
But keep also in mind, "sometimes" your comments triggers such reactions.
Only my mind.
Bruno
modified 19-Jan-21 21:04pm.
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Should we excuse a killer who killed being "triggered" by a demand to stop smoking in a wrong place?
What comments trigger what is absolutely irrelevant. Look, we have a general problem here: many members here don't see the difference between criticizing of posts (works, solution, thoughts) and behavior addressing a person; between, say, sarcasm and plain anti-social behavior; between expression of opinions and filth, foul language. This is tolerance to anti-social behavior and attack on the freedom of speech at the same time. The boundary between civilized forms and scandalous behavior can be a bit fuzzy, but this is not a good excuse to cross the line.
And remember, I am ready to take responsibility for every word I write. There are cases when people proved me wrong, then I always admit it, if it's really a proof.
Thank you.
—SASergey A Kryukov
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No we should not excuse the killer.
I don't like to start a big discussion about this, I have anyway no chance with my limited English.
I only try to tell you: Here most people are adults (I assume). And several of your comments remember me to my school time when I was 10 years and our teacher reprimanded us.
Yes, also all this does not justify such bad words/comments.
But keep in mind all here are humans and sometimes words can hurt.
I learned with time to handle your comments and appreciate your knowledge. You gave me the time for this (incl. several kicks), so please also give other the same chance.
Thank you
Bruno
modified 19-Jan-21 21:04pm.
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Everyone deserves a chance, this is a very important principle. I just wanted to note: I used to talk a lot with 10 y.o. children, really a lot. And this is my thing: I try to talk to them exactly as to adults. I mean, no less respect and no more credit. It really works. Knowledge and experience are very relative, and the difference in levels in adults can be much greater than the difference between adult and such child. After all, they are not babies. And my understanding of respect is: not treating people as babies. After all, if some does not understand something, such people can always ask, try, and so on. This is a typical fallacy in some adults: to get offended is someone teaches them "as children"; it often happens to people who achieved something. This is really a fallacy; and the readiness to be taught is real maturity. By the way, I faced underage members on this site, just a few times; some were really immature, but some, as far as I was able to see, were decent independent learners, if not engineers.
Words hurt? Sure. We all need to be careful. But it all depends the purpose. You won't blame surgeon, will you? But a surgeon can also make mistakes.
—SASergey A Kryukov
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Sergey Alexandrovich Kryukov wrote: Should we excuse a killer who killed being "triggered" by a demand to stop smoking in a wrong place?
That analogy doesn't cover this case.
A better one is "If I am in a pub, and I start being rude to someone I don't know, do I deserve to be punched?"
The answer is Yes.
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I agree with this (the scene in the Pub).
I only like to mention, for this reported case, SA answered objectively and was not rude. I would also say, I do not remember a situation where SA was rude, but I remember a lot of situations he was rebuking OPs (boah, I hope this was the right word....). And that I think is finally the reason that some members (incl. me in the past) punches back.
[Remember: Proper English is hard for me]
modified 19-Jan-21 21:04pm.
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"bad words" are in the ear of the beholder.
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Thank you for your Explanation about what and how. Makes my live easier.
Member is "trolled".
modified 19-Jan-21 21:04pm.
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I have reported it as Off Topic.
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