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Tokinabo6-Aug-14 5:10
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Well said, @cwmillerli!
Some kind of Upside Down Aikido Programming...
Wink | ;-)

Here is the thing:
Since you don't want to quit, one of you two guys will have to be flexible, at least at the beginning, and that is you.
Before the boss will listen to you, you first have to gain his trust. To do that, he needs to feel that you take him seriously and that you listen to his needs. Giving him that first screen will do that, so do it.

Tell him just once very strongly but shortly, with whitness or proof to support it later, that his methode will cost more money and time at long term. You can then recall this moment later when things really get out of hands. Make sure you avoid repeating it after having said it.

What's the big deal if you have to rebuild to often because of his approach? You don't want to leave, he is not listening but it's his company! You don't have a choice. Do you?
Some people only listen when they get hit. So let him feel the consequences of his methode if you're so sure that is what will happen finally. What do you care? It's his company, not yours. And if this really get bad along the way, well, you've told him, right!

If you feel you can code in such a way to limit the dammages because of his approach, do that. If it's too much work for you, leave it. One positive thing is that you'll be having a job because there is so much to do/fix. That counts too. It won't be your fault if the project takes too long, so why bother?

We, at CodeProject, we all know you've tried Smile | :)

Good luck!

modified 7-Aug-14 1:32am.

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