query with edit,delete option in gridview

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i have a gridview and a table, and i want to show some fields in that grid and want to give edit,delete option in that grid. but when i link grid to sqlsever and give INSERT,EDIT,UPDATE,DELETE option(when click Advanced button) then it will not show all those two options:
1} generate insert,update,delete statement
2}use optimistic concurrency
so give me solution what can i do for it.