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loctrice wrote: I also understand that if it made sense for them, they'd cancel on me even after I'd quit my current job. I've seen that happen before (not to me, but to a friend).
Happened to me. After I moved, in fact. Company decided they were fine with their old system and let 3 new hires go days before we started. I even drove 13 hours to an interview for that job. Learned my lesson. Now I'm just chilling in the middle of nowhere Kansas. Thinking of hopping over to CO after I finish school.
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Happened to me too. Got an interview, then an offer, and a couple of days later a friend of theirs got the job instead. So much for moral obligations...
Thankfully I had waited on responses from other companies before telling them to ignore my other applications, so I had no trouble taking another offer.
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And... you fell for their trap. What they did is unprofessional and should be seriously considered in future job searches. My experience says that short times for consideration are red flags being waved in your face.
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I wonder what position in the A-Team he would have gotten...
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His last invention was an evil Lasagna. It didn't kill anyone, and it actually tasted pretty good.
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Murdock, has to be Murdock...
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It doesn't matter - the plan didn't come together!
Socialism is the Axe Body Spray of political ideologies: It never does what it claims to do, but people too young to know better keep buying it anyway. (Glenn Reynolds)
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How about: So long suckers
modified 20-Oct-19 21:02pm.
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loctrice wrote: made me an offer that I can't refuse
Did it involve a suggestion that you might be sleeping with the fishes? 
Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. - Mark Twain
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PeejayAdams wrote: Did it involve a suggestion that you might be sleeping with the fishes?
I did not know we had Troy McClure as a member.
Michael Martin
Australia
"I controlled my laughter and simple said "No,I am very busy,so I can't write any code for you". The moment they heard this all the smiling face turned into a sad looking face and one of them farted. So I had to leave the place as soon as possible."
- Mr.Prakash One Fine Saturday. 24/04/2004
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Dear Company A,
I have made the decision to decline your job offer and will no longer be joining you at this time. I have recently been offered an alternative role with another organisation which is much more suited to my current situation.
I apologise for any inconvenience this may have caused you and I thank you for your time and interest.
Best Regards,
Me
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Basically just keep it short and to the point. It is good to mention the other offer as it reduces their need to come back with follow up questions (which they likely will if you don't say anything), which you don't want.
If they are professional enough then you will get a short "we are sorry but all the best" reply. Otherwise you might get a short and ungrateful one... either way, you shouldn't need to take any further action with them.
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Nice. 
This happens a lot. It's the nature of job-hunting. If you've had two interviews, and one makes you an offer, and you're under pressure to say yes or no then you should say yes. You can't assume the other will be an offer, so if you don't accept the first you might end up with nothing. In practice it's the agency (if any) that gets upset (and might call you unprofessional) rather than the client, for understandable reasons. But that's life.
As I was once told, if you don't look after yourself, no-one else will. Harsh, but true.
Kevin
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musefan wrote: I have made the decision to decline your job offer and will no longer be joining you at this time
Too brutal, too much information, and with bits in the wrong order.
Unfortunately, circumstances dictate that things will not be able to go forward as planned, and I am no longer able to join you at this time.
I thank you for your time and interest in me, and apologise for any inconvenience this may cause.
You've got to use things like "join you at this time" and "your interest in me", in case the other job goes pear-shaped.
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Agree - make it non-personal. Blame "circumstances" not personal choice.
Do this sooner rather than later if you are feeling guilty about letting down company A; BUT do wait until you've had and accepted a formal offer from B, otherwise it becomes very awkward to go back to A and say, "you know that job offer I turned down? Due to a change in circumstances..." 
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I waited until the paperwork went through, then sent the email out. I've had offers not work out so I know not to set fire to the house I'm still standing in.
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A couple score years ago, I had the same situation with graduate schools.
Penn State accepted me and I accepted. Then Northwestern accepted me. A far better option in the field.
My research advisor/mentor, who even had ties to Penn State, when asked what to do said "Northwestern - no question". And pointed out I really didn't owe anything to either.
I took his advise - but such decisions still cause no small discomfort.
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Any way works. I accepted A and I'm really repenting a lot.
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"the offer would expire." Not sure I would have accepted an offer that had an expiration date in the first place. Sounds unprofessional and disrespectful to me.
Just as consumers are advised to walk away from deals that are "only good today".
And you would wind up working with a bunch of colleagues who had also fallen for the same bad sales technique.
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Well, the company can't wait around forever for someone to accept an offer, especially if it's an urgent open position.
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Agreed, there must be some reasonable timeframe for an applicant to accept or decline an offer.
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A elephanting men!
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Use the example letter musefan posted and take the job with Company B. Since Company A switched jobs and compensation on you, it sounds like they didn't really want you anyway, but thought you might be desperate enough to take whatever they offered. Even their counter offer sounds like they are not terribly interested in having you work for them. I can't imagine that would have been a good working relationship anyway.
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I don't think they thought I was desperate. They knew I was talking with other companies, and had at least one offer. I think at least a good part of it was corporate limitations since it's such a large company. I mean I think they tried their best offer because they knew I wasn't desperate.
Elephant elephant elephant, sunshine sunshine sunshine
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My mistake, I read the counter offer story and thought it was part of your saga, which indicated the second company wasn't as interested and they seemed.. but that's not your dilemma.
Well, Company A did their best, but it sounds like someone you'd rather work for made a better offer. My advice still stands, accept the offer from Company B and respectfully bow out from Company A.
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Company A didn't happen to be Amazon, is it?
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