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Been considering a post about health in general for a while, it is good to vent to a bunch of people who don't know you at times.

I'd kind of assumed the memory problems were more or less over for a while, because I was experiencing no big issues at all, but that wasn't really true. About three weeks ago I was assessed at a brain injury hospital and formally diagnosed with a brain injury. I felt like a massive fraud sitting in the waiting room as all these stroke victims who were concentrating so hard on just walking came and went, but the doctors validated everything I was experiencing and said that I needed to be there, which was a very good feeling.

I don't have any major issues, I function quite normally, but some things are just different to how they were before the accident, the best way I can explain it is that I am not quite me anymore.

I don't always know where I am going, or why. I get lost a lot and have to do a lot of u-turns. I exited the toilets at work the other day and for a few seconds had no idea how to get back to my desk. I often forget to do things, I keep having to log in from home in the evening when I remember there is something I was supposed to do but hadn't. I struggle with some mental tasks, I spent far, far, far too long trying to work out how many fours go into a hundred the other week. I use the wrong words whilst at times without noticing, not a problem on the internet as a re-read everything before posting, but can be a bit odd in spoken conversation. Shopping for food takes ages as I wonder around supermarkets trying to work out what I need to buy and I end up with some odd things at times. I get timings wrong whilst cooking quite a bit too. I don't always know if I've had conversations with people or just imagined it.

My medium term memory isn't great, I can generally remember things I have just done, but not always, and older memories have been coming back, but things in the last few weeks or months often don't seem to stick around, this frustrates my daughter greatly who has a brilliant memory and is constantly annoyed I cannot remember things we've done or films we've watched.

I had been covering for things at work, I'm fairly lucky in that no-one here really understands what I do so I could cover, but have now admitted to my boss that things are different now. I am having to change how I do things, set reminders and flags on emails, write things down, make lists of things that need doing, all things I had absolutely no need of before.


I am also going back to see the consultant who injected my spine this afternoon as things have deteriorated there in recent weeks. It had been getting steadily worse until I spent four and a half hours driving and it has been much worse since then. Sitting is painful, but I have started waking in pain too the last week or so.

And finally tomorrow I am seeing an ENT consultant to see if he can do anything about the tinnitus that I have been suffering with since the accident. I ignored it for so long assuming it would gradually abate but it isn't. According to the brain injury people sleep is important in the recovery (it should all be just a question of time, possibly quite a long time) but the tinnitus makes it hard to get to sleep and the back pain makes it hard to stay asleep).


The only person any of this makes happy is my solicitor.
Some men are born mediocre, some men achieve mediocrity, and some men have mediocrity thrust upon them.

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