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It is all set. We just need to decide on day I become a martyr.
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Oh, no, no, no...there is a big bit coming up first: "Planning and Paying"... 
Those who fail to learn history are doomed to repeat it. --- George Santayana (December 16, 1863 – September 26, 1952)
Those who fail to clear history are doomed to explain it. --- OriginalGriff (February 24, 1959 – ∞)
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I have already started saving. 
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d@nish wrote: I have already started saving.
Not enough! 
Once you lose your pride the rest is easy.
I would agree with you but then we both would be wrong.
The report of my death was an exaggeration - Mark Twain
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BTW, I don't know how much do you know about Indian weddings. Main dinner would have around 500-700 guests.
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Let's see, as I remember it:
The bride wears a "dress" that weighs 25 kg.
The groom wears a necklace of money. He gets his shoes stolen by the sisters in-law to be, and has to pay a ransom for them.
All cousins stand guard at the entrance to stop wedding crashers, but there is still a lot of confusion as they simply fail to keep track on 500 people.
And everything is extremely overwhelming.
This is the Sikh version, I can imagine that the traditions in India vary about as much as over the whole of Europe.
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This is general North Indian wedding. Not the Sikh version. I am not sure if you experienced it in India as Sikh weddings are very different.
Yes, I will have all of that and more. It will be a 4 day affair and I need to pay for accommodation, food and every other need. I wish we had Western culture here when it comes to wedding.
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Quote: I wish we had Western culture here when it comes to wedding
My "Western Culture" wedding had 150 guests, the bride also wore a gown weighing a ton, with a train and veils about a mile long. Ok, so I exaggerated the dress a bit, but that's what it seemed like. The whole thing cost around $39,000 and took a year to organise. We had guests coming in from England, France, Germany, Italy and Australia so it took some planning. My idiot half-brother kept changing his availability and we re-scheduled twice because of him. Eventually we got fed up of rearranging things around my his needs, had him shot (in my mind), and went ahead without him. It was great apart from the DJ at the reception playing "Chicken Dance" and arranging line-dancing, which we had specifically forbidden. He did it while we were seeing off some elderly guests who had to leave and we were not in the ballroom - we only found out about it later when we saw the wedding video. We had the DJ shot as well (in my mind). Anyone know some good video editing software as I need to do some editing?
- I would love to change the world, but they won’t give me the source code.
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He's told me he's of Sikh origin, I might have misunderstood that.
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So...how are you going to decide which 10,657,569 of us you aren't going to invite? 
Those who fail to learn history are doomed to repeat it. --- George Santayana (December 16, 1863 – September 26, 1952)
Those who fail to clear history are doomed to explain it. --- OriginalGriff (February 24, 1959 – ∞)
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Bottom 100 are invited. You ain't. And since they are lurkers or spammers, I do not care. 
Seriously though, come along.
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I would be honored to attend just a spectacular and auspicious ceremony. However, I will probably have to decline as it's going to be difficult to justify the time to Herself... 
I'll let you enjoy the occasion with your closest 500 friends and family! 
Those who fail to learn history are doomed to repeat it. --- George Santayana (December 16, 1863 – September 26, 1952)
Those who fail to clear history are doomed to explain it. --- OriginalGriff (February 24, 1959 – ∞)
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I am in a similar situation, though after 9 years together and 3 kids there's no hurry. I keep telling her I want to be married but I don't really want to have a wedding. It seems this is a difficult concept for her.
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_Josh_ wrote: I want to be married but I don't really want to have a wedding
Does it even involve her? 
GOTOs are a bit like wire coat hangers: they tend to breed in the darkness, such that where there once were few, eventually there are many, and the program's architecture collapses beneath them. (Fran Poretto)
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OriginalGriff wrote: Does she know yet?
Of course!
She's smiled at him three times, and said "Hi" twice, so she must know what's coming.
I wanna be a eunuchs developer! Pass me a bread knife!
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Congrats?
d@nish wrote: I feel same way as the dinosaurs would have had they knew they are going extinct.
That feeling will pass after all they eventually died also!
Good luck to you and the future Mrs..
If first you don't succeed, hide all evidence you ever tried!
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Thanks. Ain't no console there I see.
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I asked an old friend of mine one time how him and his wife had lasted so long and his response was; "choose your battles carefully".
If first you don't succeed, hide all evidence you ever tried!
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It is amazing how most married men I know suggest this.
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d@nish wrote: It is amazing how most married men I know suggest this.
Survival instinct. You'll learn. 
Once you lose your pride the rest is easy.
I would agree with you but then we both would be wrong.
The report of my death was an exaggeration - Mark Twain
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Nice little double entendre there; perhaps the KSs won't notice. ![Badger | [badger,badger,badger,badger...]](https://www.codeproject.com/script/Forums/Images/badger.gif)
You'll never get very far if all you do is follow instructions.
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OK, I didn't do anything. I wan't event in town that day. What is it anyways?
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d@nish wrote: It is scary.
Uhm... congrats.
Everything will be alright. As long as the wife and girlfriends don't find out about each other.
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I would prefer being alive than taking this risk.
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d@nish wrote: It is scary.
You know, marriage is not mandatory!!!
It should be a very bad base for a life spend with her...
I'm not questioning your powers of observation; I'm merely remarking upon the paradox of asking a masked man who he is. (V)
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