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Depends if you are the one suffering or listening to the phone, I guess.
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"Common sense is so rare these days, it should be classified as a super power" - Random T-shirt
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That's not typical if you're a regular patient. Then there's all the scheduling that already went into the day. Sort of like this whole "I must travel by plane and make all my connections on time" mind set.
"Before entering on an understanding, I have meditated for a long time, and have foreseen what might happen. It is not genius which reveals to me suddenly, secretly, what I have to say or to do in a circumstance unexpected by other people; it is reflection, it is meditation." - Napoleon I
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told my grandson to become a dentist. Makes a lot of money and at regular hours.
Interesting and complex engineering problems to solve at times.
Fix problems to improve people's health.
only problem is you see a lot of people who don't want to be in your chair
and can't wait to leave.
Just saying.
"A little time, a little trouble, your better day"
Badfinger
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But they're always down in the mouth.
I’ve given up trying to be calm. However, I am open to feeling slightly less agitated.
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good one
"A little time, a little trouble, your better day"
Badfinger
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Sure it can be a bit of a grind but you know the drill going into it.
If you can't laugh at yourself - ask me and I will do it for you.
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"A little time, a little trouble, your better day"
Badfinger
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OriginalGriff wrote: "The earliest I've got in 7th March"
They should consider themselves lucky to be registered with an NHS dentist. I moved 2½ years ago, and I'm still on the waiting list.
I ended up having to go to a private dentist when I needed a root canal, which is decidedly not cheap.
(It was either that, or face a 520-mile round-trip to my old dentist for each appointment - assuming they had kept me on their books.)
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- Homer
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Without me, debt and US fuel make it all greasy. (10)
Software rusts. Simon Stephenson, ca 1994. So does this signature. me, 2012
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Without me, ALONE (without the "A" but I don't know why)
debt IOU
and US fuel GAS
make it (anag)
all greasy
OLEAGINOUS
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Correct result, but a different path to get there
IOU Without me, debt [edit: strikeout is almost invisible on the "I" /edit]
GASOLINE US fuel
make it all (anag)
OLEAGINOUS greasy - def.
YAUT!
Software rusts. Simon Stephenson, ca 1994. So does this signature. me, 2012
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That's what I had but couldn't justify it
Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride!" - Hunter S Thompson - RIP
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I have been reading lots of web novel of late on Royal Road.. and 2 things struck me as odd about characters psychology in those books. Okay admittedly they are fictional, but I imagine the psychology is somewhat authentic in the eye of the author perhaps?
All of that to say, many characters are:
1. prompt to anger and lash out first then, perhaps, think. Also generally having an angry mood.
2. alternatively sometimes somewhat absent minded going so far as staring blankly at an impending doom aiming right at them
The first one, about needless anger leave me particularly confused. Am I unnaturally calm? or are American always angry (I suspect they are, I have something against American to be honest)? Or maybe is it how people view teenagers? But perhaps that's just me, I couldn't even get angry during my one single fight I had when I was a teenager meself...
The second is a bit less strange, although why not being angry enough to move hey? instead of just staring stupidly? What kind of author comes up with that for their characters?
modified 10-Jan-23 2:16am.
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I guess it depends - I'm reasonably calm (in my opinion) and prefer to think before I act; but I have friends whose first, second, and third impulse is to start lashing out. Don;t get me wrong, they are good guys - but they react rather than plan. And I've met (but generally stayed at arms length from) people who are permanently angry.
In my case I think it's a legacy of riding motorcycles instead of driving for thirty years: if you don't plan for what might happen and have an alternative ready then you are going to become a smear on the roadway pretty quickly!
It's probably down to "everyone is different" rather than "cod psychology".
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- 1 for riding motorbikes for years - some drivers are good but most aren't.
Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well-preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride!" - Hunter S Thompson - RIP
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I always figured that if I can think of six stupid things a driver could do in an emergency, some daft bugger will do the seventh ...
It amazes me sometimes that people can have so little road sense: 70mph in thick fog, or on ice and snow; driving a couple of feet behind a lorry and then trying to overtake ...
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I know bikers that are equally dumb as the drivers you say, or even more.
One of them a school pal, had an accident (and a guard angel).
The accident was accelerating to 100+ km/h in a 50 km/h town main street after a roundabout, overtaking a bus in prohibited segment and hitting frontally a car that was correctly getting out the perpendicular street.
The poor woman had serious anxious attacks due to the accident, although she had do nothing wrong. He flew around 25 meters and then landed on the asfalt. The doctors made 3 times the x-ray pics because they could not believe that he hadn't break anything. But his skin was totally sanded away, he looks like someone who escaped a fire in a building, burning himself the full body.
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Oh yes. Or even dumber in some cases ...
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I guess it happens then... And I guess some are writer on Royal Road too, haha, or making their protagonists that stupid for giggle or hero journey trope...
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The other day we were watching "Indiana Jones and the Crystal Skull" (UK terrestrial TV is not wonderful). I was struck by how many times the 'heroes' stood and watched while their doom seemed sealed, before actually reacting. It seems to be a method that is supposed to make the action more dramatic. But it just makes the cast look stupid, IMHO.
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Ha! So I am not the only one to notice that hey! Good!
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To preface I have no education even near either film or psychology and am purely playing armchair expert here
While often used as tool to increase tension and maybe prolong the moment to let the audience digest the gravity of the situation I wouldn't call it a wholly unnatural behaviour.
Like deer in headlights I know I've more than once frozen up in moments of sudden danger so it is a thing.
Though I'd expect people prone to danger, like fictional seasoned adventurers, would have trained themselves to overcome the "freeze" reaction in favour of actually moving out of harms way.
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Quote: often used as tool to increase tension and maybe prolong the moment to let the audience digest the gravity of the situation Does it also explain why women never come to the point?
"In testa che avete, Signor di Ceprano?"
-- Rigoletto
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What gets me in these situations is when it's a "time to run away, fast" situation and the cast just stand around talking about how urgently they should take that action rather than actually running away and talking about it later in the pub.
Another is when the hero is going to hold off the bad guys while the target/victim gets away. Said target always stands around saying things for several seconds (at least) instead of running away immediately - as a result the hero's actions are often wasted or made more difficult.
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Have often heard that anger is a manifestation of unfulfilled desires. Is it that these characters have a number of such unfulfilled desires so that anger comes naturally to them?
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