You can write JavaScript method to calculate the number of months difference between two given dates as:
function monthDiff(d1, d2) {
var months;
months = (d2.getFullYear() - d1.getFullYear()) * 12;
months -= d1.getMonth() + 1;
months += d2.getMonth();
return months;
}
Using this method, you can write your application logic as
monthDiff(dtpChequeDate.Value, Date.Now) > 3