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Curious question... What is the difference in how you value money and how your children value money?
I often find that people like you think of money in terms of effort required to acquire it, and people who can't seem to hold onto it seem to think of it as "a medium of exchange", meaning "something I must give up, in order to get what I want".
I say all of this, because throughout my life, I can say that this seems VERY TRUE to me:
The last thing a person with financial problems needs is more money!
This is why most people who do win the lottery are worse off 5+ years later.
The problem is usually their value system... That must be fixed first.
I am proud to say my daughter values money like I do. "A storehouse of prior work effort", and at a young age has a retirement plan, owns a little BITCOIN, and only has a car payment to develop her credit after college. While using Covid as an excuse to live in as many states as possible, willing to pay that rent vs. staying at home for free (so, not being stingy, but extracting maximum value)...
I hope your children find their footing. Dave Ramsey, The Wealthy Barber, FIRE are all things I would share with them. (I usually start by explaining Net Worth vs Monthly Expenses, LOL)
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Kirk 10389821 wrote: What is the difference in how you value money and how your children value money?
They have the same set of values as we do. I think you made a mistaken assumption from what I wrote. When I said they were less financially comfortable, I just meant that they still need to work for a living. A lottery win would give them the freedom to choose whether to continue or not.
ps Why the huge text? We are all capable of reading standard size font.
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First, apologies... Glad to hear that.
Second, thank you, I don't usually work with Markdown, and my "==" separator is some kind of MD to use a big font, not my intention, I fixed it!
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Kirk 10389821 wrote: Markdown
It is a bit of pain, and often catches me out.
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... I'd stop believing in the laws of probability ... 
"I have no idea what I did, but I'm taking full credit for it." - ThisOldTony
"Common sense is so rare these days, it should be classified as a super power" - Random T-shirt
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"In testa che avete, Signor di Ceprano?"
-- Rigoletto
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There's very little chance of that.
- I would love to change the world, but they won’t give me the source code.
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I would likely do more Open Source Development... Most likely some extensions that I have on the back burner that would tie into the product I currently develop for my employer. Perhaps also pull out some archived shareware I wrote long ago, update it and re-release it as open source, as I've not found anything like it available on the web, but I know that there is a desire for it in specific circles.
I would also start up several (4 or 5) side businesses that I've wanted to implement, unrelated to software development, and specifically beneficial to the small community that I live in (I live way out in the country on forty acres).
I'd also likely try to purchase some of my neighbor's land so that I could raise more cattle.
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Would still work at least for a while. My wife's wanderlust would eventually pull me away or maybe they'd keep me part time. Have laptop, as long as there's an internet connection I can work wherever.
Money wise:
Pay off any debt I still had.
Set up grandkids for college.
I know we'd be traveling.
Set up aid/help for children in the foster system in my area, technology stuff, sports fee funding, life skill and tutoring help.
We have done fostering for 6 years. Currently taking a break because of new granddaughter, but we will do it again.
I’ve given up trying to be calm. However, I am open to feeling slightly less agitated.
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... buy a Caribbean island ...
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� Forogar � wrote: ...and had enough to retire comfortably, would you?
I for the most part quite enjoy the software development work I do, so I would keep doing it.
Frankly, I'd probably give most of the money away so that younger people I know could more easily pursue their dreams. (They tend to be the starving artists sort.)
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"I didn't mention the bats - he'd see them soon enough" - Hunter S Thompson - RIP
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I've had some coding ideas in my head for decades, none of which would unfortunately pay any bill.
If I didn't have to worry about money, then yes, I'd be quitting my job and work on my own fun little pet projects.
I used to work on them evenings and weekends, but eventually I burnt out. It's been years I've written anything on my own time. I miss it, but no longer have the energy to do coding beyond "regular" hours.
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Quote: I miss it, but no longer have the energy to do coding beyond "regular" hours.
I have the same problem. The enthusiasm that kept me going, and enjoying it seems to have faded in the last couple of years. Maybe lots of money would reduce other stresses enough to enable renewed effort and joy in coding for myself.
- I would love to change the world, but they won’t give me the source code.
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I would retire, then gamble it away on bad investments and give it away to bad people.
I would then have to go back to work, wondering when I will win the lottery again, so I could retire.
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This exactly. 
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I'd split the money in three parts, and spend one third on women, one third on wine and spirits, and be free to spend the last third on things that have no lasting value.
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Yes. Any coding would be for myself (e.g. useful utilities, etc.)
I like mountain biking, so it would be nice to be able to travel and go ride trails across the world.
After that... spend time on hobbies, tinker in the garage, etc.
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I can retire at any time with a diversity of other so-called 'income streams' able to supply more than I need. There's little holding me to where I work. So what to do with the money?
First, invest enough in a diversity of low-risk incoming producing things so don't have to ever worry about running out of money.
Maybe add an additional '0' to the end of donation amounts.
But I'd like to spend a bunch on ranting publicly (purchase newspaper/TV/Radio ads) to call out people/groups who are pandering and thereby exacerbating instead of curing problems. Call down damnation upon those (left/right/black/white/asian/religious/atheists) who make their living off of strife - spell it out so even a simpleton (i.e., nearly everyone) can finally begin to understand. Manipulate them into understanding how they're being manipulated.
In other words, buying a great big megaphone so I can Phart Into The Wind.
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Why purchase your own media platform? It looks like the Lounge is still your platform. 
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Quote: spell it out so even a simpleton (i.e., nearly everyone) can finally begin to understand.
You cannot win that amount of money on a lottery ticket
Espen Harlinn
Senior Architect - Ulriken Consulting AS
The competent programmer is fully aware of the strictly limited size of his own skull; therefore he approaches the programming task in full humility, and among other things he avoids clever tricks like the plague.Edsger W.Dijkstra
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I'd quit my job on the spot, there are so much better things to do - like coding, for instance. Maybe even like this[^] (old french ad for lottery - "au revoir président" = "goodbye boss").
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I am retired and find I only coded for the money, I have barely touched VS in the last 2 years. I always thought I would continue coding for my own entertainment but as most useful projects would include web and mobile components I find I have completely lost interest.
More money would be nice so I could indulge SWAMBO's desire to visit every country on the planet when COvid runs its course.
Never underestimate the power of human stupidity -
RAH
I'm old. I know stuff - JSOP
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I'd give them a month, maybe six weeks at the outside, to have me train someone to take over my projects, then I'd be out the door. That's a lot better than the previous employer would have gotten, I might not even have bothered to tell them I quit.
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The wife would by a chateau in France, I'd have a man cave and fitted the house top to bottom with gadgets, she'd have enough for me to do on a daily basis.
And I'd buy a few cars
Every day, thousands of innocent plants are killed by vegetarians.
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